I love my fiance, we’ve been together for a couple of years and I honestly thought he was the perfect man until a few days ago. He showed up to the house with a brand new car without telling me anything about it beforehand. At first I thought it was a prank, but he confessed he landed a big ass jackpot or something and used the money to “treat himself.”
Once I calmed down, I confronted him about gambling in the first place, and then compounded the weight of not using the money for the house or the wedding (God knows we could use it) instead of blowing it all on a car (we each have perfectly usable cars already).
The worst part was when he told me that he put down his whole paycheck on a roulette spin (?!) and got lucky. He mentioned he might try it again as a “great way” to get cash for our honeymoon at the site where he got the first win. I was beside myself with rage. I’m really worried he’ll go through with his idiotic idea and that he’ll ruin our marriage before it’s even had a chance to begin! Please help, what do I do???
