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Just Said Yes August 2020

Who should walk me down the aisle?

on June 25, 2019 at 2:51 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 7
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So I am really close with my dad and my stepdad. My stepdad has only been around for the last 5 years or so, but we have a great relationship. My dad and I were not close when I was growing up, but we have become close also within the last 5ish years. I want both of them to walk me down the aisle, but they do not get along at all. I'm considering having my grandfather walk me down the aisle (who I have always been close with) and do separate father/daughter dances. I don't want to hurt anyone feelings though. What are y'alls opinion?

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Latest activity by Nichole, on June 25, 2019 at 9:33 PM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I walked myself down the aisle actually
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    Can you walk down by yourself or with your mom?

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  • Furture Mrs. G
    Expert September 2019
    Furture Mrs. G ·
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    What if they both walked you down. One on each side?

    I think it would mean a lot to the both of them!

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  • Melissa
    VIP October 2018
    Melissa ·
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    Depending on how long your aisle is, I have seen one start the walk, and do a handoff halfway down. Or one starts, and the other joins halfway.

    Or have them both walk with you. You have the ability to get creative here!

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  • Katie
    Super November 2019
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    Do you have brothers? My sister's bio Dad didn't come into the picture until after she was 18 and my Dad didn't make it to her wedding due to work so she had our two brothers walk her down the aisle. I think the idea of your grandfather walking you would be nice, and then dancing with each Dad separately so everyone is included.
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  • Christina
    Dedicated December 2021
    Christina ·
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    I would have them both walk you down. I know you said they don’t get along but they should be able to put an differences aside or dislike for each other since it’s your big day. If you mean a lot to both of them, they can work it out. If they can’t then I would definitely walk with my mom or if you wanted the male figure, I would go with the grandfather.
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  • Nichole
    Savvy November 2019
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    I'm having my 3 sons walk me down. They all will walk to a certain point and my oldest will take me to the altar. My dad and stepdad will share the Father/Daughter dance.
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