One piece of advice that I see pop up on these boards often when the gift of bridesmaids gifts comes up is to “shop like it’s their birthday” and to buy individual gifts that suit specific hobbies and tastes. I find this fascinating!
I’ve been a bridesmaid a few times and the gifts have always been the same for all girls—monogrammed sweatshirts, compact mirrors, etc. Things that were nice and pretty, but certainly not personal at all. And I never found that weird.
I know bridesmaids spend a ton of money to participate in weddings, but I guess I have trouble seeing exactly why a super personal gift is “needed”. To me it’s almost like inviting someone to my birthday party and then giving them a personal gift because they took the time to celebrate me and spend money on me.
To be clear, I was hyper conscious of my bridesmaids’ costs and allowed them to pick a dress that fit their budget, combined bach/wedding weekend, paid for bach accommodations and many drinks and gave very generous designer gifts.
I just think this is a relatively new trend and would love to hear people’s thoughts!
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