Hi everyone!
So we had our dream day planned for April 18, 2020, and it was postponed due to Covid-19. We really are lucky our venue has most of the services in house and are literal saints who let us move our early spring wedding to August 1, but let us keep the "winter" pricing. Our photographer was open that day, as well as our DJ, so we were all set to ride out lockdown planning on getting married August 1, 2020 hoping that the virus would be more under control by then to be able to safely gather in our group of 150. We had already decided we would have our ceremony outside in their gazebo since it will most likely be good weather (and it is easily set up inside if not).
Well, a week and a half ago, Ohio's governor gave some good/bad news. The good: Weddings of 300 and under can proceed beginning 6/1. The bad: Weddings must follow all restaurant guidelines and there is no congregating allowed (meaning no dancing, no gathering at the bar, and social distancing must be practiced).
We're now officially two months out, and I'm starting to panic again like I was before we postponed the first time. The wedding want involves dancing, hugging, etc.
How do you social distance groups of friends who don't live together, and still seat people appropriately for dinner? I really don't want any guests being uncomfortable attending, or be viewed as selfish for proceeding, even though the state says it is okay.
We decided with the venue that we would wait until the last week of June to make any decisions.
Sorry for the rant up to this point: but the question is: what would you do if you were me and my FH? He is totally calm, like he was last time before we postponed, and thinks the guidelines will be less restrictive come the end of June. I'm not convinced that is the case.
Would you postpone? How far in to 2021 would you book? Also, as a guest, would you even be excited to attend a wedding that was postponed twice? I'm sure people have been so sick of hearing about the wedding since I got engaged in 2018, and by 2021, I feel like they wouldn't even be excited to come anymore. (Also, we are not into the idea of eloping and having a reception later on. We want everything done at once as we have already paid for the wedding and reception.)
Thank you for reading this long, rambling post of mine. I love the community on here and wanted advice from other couples who could help!