Wedding party

If you are having a very small wedding, you can skip a wedding party all together. Or you can just choose a maid of honor (or 2, since it’s between 2 girls) to stand with you. Or simply eliminate the title maid of honor, and just have two bridesmaids- there’s no rule that you have to have a MOH

View Quoted Comment Thank you!! I respect the two equally so. Maybe I won't have a made of honor. However I feel like one might be expecting it??? Idk. Thank you for the advice. We want a small wedding but I did a rough guest count tonight and our family / friends that are like family already tolly up to 80 people. Including us and the vendors

It's your wedding. You can have as many or as few bridesmaids as you'd like and you can have two MOHs or no MOHs. Only invite people to be in your wedding party that you can't imagine your wedding day without. Limit the size of your wedding party to be an appropriate size for your wedding - in general, less is more. Sides do not need to be even. Don't include anyone in your wedding party out of obligation (for example, siblings of your partner that you aren't close with or people who you were a bridesmaid for).

If there are two girls who mean a lot to you and you can't imagine your wedding day without them, invite them both to be in your wedding party and give them whatever titles you want!