I have been reading these forums for a while and it seems like there is so much wedding party drama. I do not want to blame or finger point in any direction, things happen and we all have to own our actions. But as someone who decided to skip a wedding party in favor of only including our sons I have to admit I feel truly relieved. On the other hand I had a MOH for my first wedding and she was amazing, but I didn't really ask her to do anything other than grab a dress from her closet and show up in Florida for a weekend.
So I guess the point of this post is tell me your thoughts based on your experiences. Are you thrilled with the people you chose to include or not include on your big day? Are you feeling stressed about the people you asked, if so why? Did you also choose not to have bridespeople/groomspeople and miss it? Would you have done something different? I'm truly interested in hearing from all sides here.