Wedding gift for someone who is getting married again?

Since he’s a close friend of your husbands, unless they say “no gifts,” then giving *something* is probably a good idea. It doesn’t have to be big, but some sort of gift.

If it were me, I’d give the same amount.

I think the "etiquette" about how much to give (there isn't really any actual etiquette about how much to give, but there are customs and traditions) is always to give what you are comfortable and moved to give based on your relationship with the recipient. If your relationship and financial situations are the same, then you would probably give the same amount for each wedding.

That said, I definitely didn't feel moved to give the same amount to my brother-in-law at his second destination wedding in less than two years. So, I absolutely understand asking the question.

Give what you're comfortable with. I hate receiving gifts AND this is my 2nd wedding (my last was 2012, his was 2004), so we're not creating a registry, nor are we putting a card box at the door.

View Quoted Comment I would still have some kind of box/receptacle for cards. Even though you don’t like to get them people will still bring them. You want to have someplace for them to be all together so you don’t have to worry about them. Some one handed me a card at the end of the evening and I had to hold on to it while I finished dancing and gathering my things which wasn’t super fun. You don’t want to loose anything.

I would gift the same amount as usual. IMO it shouldn’t matter which wedding it was for them, the point is to gift the couple for hosting an evening for you to enjoy and to start their married life together.

Hi ! As that friend, I would really understand if the amount were not as high as the last time ;-) I think you should give whatever you feel you can/want...