Hey ppls.... first and foremost HAPPY PLANNING AND CONGRATS TO EVERY SINGLE PERSON READING THIS DISCUSSION N THANKS FOR READING MY RANT!!
OK .... now down to the issue.... I can not STAND MY FUTURE MOTHER IN LAW AT ALL..... me n her were once what i considered "Close" which i thought we had an AWESOME relationship but since June of 2019 all of what i felt and what i thought we had went out the WINDOW!!
OK so here is my thing I have no issues with being a protective mom because I have one (his mom n my mom are both virgos) but she HAS talked crap about her son to me thru messenger not even knowing me and him not only got back together but we were living together and if you are a iPad/iphone user thanukno your messages go across the screen.
Then she has lied on me to him saying she doesnt talk about him to when in fact he has seen it... she has attempted to play both side and pretends she knows things about us n our relationship when she doesnt.... I have watched her LIE on him to family just seeking attention wit the family just for his family to run to her aid n make him look like the bad guy and have him bend to her will...... even furthermore I watch as he needed medical attention (he still on her insurance) bcuz his job insurance had not kicked in but instead of providing the info so he could go to urgent care etc she drove an hour after she got off work to take him...... any way possible to wheel him in and keep him under her thump she will do it....
BUT with outsiders she puts on a whole front like she isnt in his business nor that she treats him petty..... she has gone so far as to go thru our messages and screen shot him and talk about it with her mother and friends....
I have literally sat up n watched her tell 1 friends business to another friend etc etc etc. It goes on people I personally BLOCKED her June 2019 because I am not about all that mess especially with keep up wit my grown son....
oh n the icing on the cake she has done ALL this n more while planning her own wedding!! She just got married September 1st to her 2nd husband on top of the several ailments she is battling. The husband lives in Chicago while she lives here in Arizona.... I am frustrated yall and I feel bad because between us ...
I am thinking about NOT marrying my FH bcuz of his mother and because she is too much and I deal wit things differently than he does... I am not mad about him caving to his mom here n there because we all have mom's but this is a bit much. And because we both have controlling overbearing moms BOTH of them have no idea we are engaged!! Just our wedding party.... just ugh I bought food last night for my FH lil brother and mind you I have spoken a word to this lady since JUNE because she read how I really felt about her meddling (I didn't use any disrespectful words) in the messages to my FH and she finds me on Instagram and send me the following dm message posted (mind you I bought food for EVERYBODY).... PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE DEALING WITH THE MOTHER IN LAW BLUES
