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Sarah
Expert November 2018

Waxing Before the honeymoon (maybe Nsfw??)

Sarah, on September 3, 2018 at 8:02 PM Posted in Honeymoon 0 22
So I have a few questions about waxing my “hair down there” for the wedding and honeymoon.
I’ve literally never even gotten my eyebrows waxed so I’m a little nervous. I plan to get my brows and mustache waxed soon and I found a salon with amazing reviews but I’m still so nervous.i want to get either a Brazilian or just my bikini done. We are honeymooning in Florida and I plan to be in a swimsuit for the majority of the day. So here’s my questions
1) is it worth it? I’ve been shaving for 10 years now so I know what I’m doing but I kind of want to treat myself and also make sure there’s no spots that get missed.
2) Brazilian or bikini? The only reason I would get a Brazilian is for FH but he’s seen me at my worst and literally doesn’t care. But also go big or go home, right?
3) i know everyone’s pain tolerance is different but on a scale of 1-my keg just fell off how bad is the pain?
4) should I start it now? My wedding is on November 4th so I have a bit. Would it be smarter to have my first time not be so close to the wedding? Or should I be okay?

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Latest activity by Gen, on September 4, 2018 at 12:45 PM
  • L
    Dedicated September 2019
    LJ ·
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    First of all, do what you’re comfortable with! A really good tech can try to limit the pain, but take a couple Advil beforehand. It’s literally ripping hair out of sensitive skin, but like ripping off a bandaid, it isn’t lasting pain- you may be a little sore but a little ice will help.

    Id suggest bikini first and if you’re tolerating it well, and you still want it, go full Brazilian. I’d go soon to see how you respond to it and then again before your wedding so everything is fresh. Good luck!!
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  • RachMariee
    Dedicated June 2019
    RachMariee ·
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    1.) in my opinion waxing down there is 100% worth it! It's honestly all that I do down there anymore; no more shaving at all.

    2.) I prefer Brazilian

    3.) the pain isn't that bad at all! I mean... it doesn't feel GOOD, but it's definitely bearable. It's the tweezers at the end that's the painful part... but you can ask them to stop! its just to get the little ones that the wax didn't pick up.

    4.) I would start now! The more times you do it the easier/less painful it is. Just make sure you DON'T shave between appointments.


    Other tips! Do not go when you're more sensitive down there (depending on your time of the month), and if you stay away from caffeine and alcohol a day or two leading up to it it will also be less painful. You will also be sensitive down there for a couple days afterwards as well, so when it comes to right before your wedding I'd recommend getting it done three-ish days before.

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  • Kenisha
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    Kenisha ·
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    Pain = eh. It's not pleasurable but it definitely isn't the worst thing you'll ever experience. You'll be fine.

    I would HIGHLY suggest getting a SUGARING treatment VS getting waxed. The pain is so much less it's not even funny.

    I would start now so that you can see if you like it or not.

    Good luck and keep us posted!

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  • Sarah
    Expert November 2018
    Sarah ·
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    Thank you for the extra tips! I assumed right before and right after my time of the month would not be smart. Same with tattoos. I never get them around when I start my period because they hurt so much worse. I had no idea caffeine and alcohol made a difference!!
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  • Genesis
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    I have always done brazilians, never done just a bikini because like you I had the "go big or go home" mentality & I do not regret it. If you do it right before the wedding day, do it ATLEAST 2 days prior (48 hours) to when you're expecting "action". After the wax I'm usually swollen for the rest of the night, but not in pain. I am VERY sensitive, so the wax hurts however, it is not intolerable. When it comes to my personal experience, getting my armpits waxed hurt more!

    Usually I get the strip wax on the top part, when it comes to the labia they usually use hard wax. In between the buttcheeks is honestly virtually painless. I don't know if you knew it was included or not so I mentioned it because I had no idea and was concerned when they had me turn around my first time haha. Good luck!!
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  • Sarah
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    Sarah ·
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    I’m afraid if I don’t like it I’ll be stubby for the honeymoon cause I won’t even co sided going back. I’m stubborn!
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  • Sarah
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    Sarah ·
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    Consider* I’m on mobile so I can’t edit my last comment
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  • Sarah
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    Sarah ·
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    My armpits are so sensitive sometimes even shaving hurts them 😂😂 I don’t exoect action for a few days after the wedding to be honest. Wedding ends at 11. Driving to Florida by 4am. Going to Disney the next day. Universal the day after that.... we’ll be too busy to get busy!! Thanks for the tip! I thought the butt was involved but wasn’t 100% sure
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  • Stephanie
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    All of the things in the PP. I would say the most painful part for me is the top. For some reason that hurts the most. But yes start soon and see how you like it plus if you have an allergic reaction to the wax you're not SOL for the wedding. Best of luck!
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  • K
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    Kyrchia ·
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    Waxing is the way to go. If your going to do it I qould do a Braxilian, go big. The pain is bearable, if is too much the person doing it can help you with some techniques on how to get through it. I personally would start now so you get used to it and you hair thins out everytime you doing it. So by November itll be a piece of cake, you’ll probably keep doing it afterwards. Its a nice feeling.
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  • Genesis
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    Expect the unexpected! Maybe you'll have an adrenaline rush & make time😅 & no problem. 😊
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  • Megan
    Dedicated September 2018
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    I totally love waxing - not the actual process so much but definitely the resulting smoothness and that my hair doesn't grow in so thick afterward and seems softer.

    Some good advice above but I just wanted to add: I would say go ASAP if you think you want to do it! You definitely want to make sure you won't have any weird reactions. Plus, something to keep in mind- usually you will need 4-6 weeks between each appointment to let your hair grow out enough to get waxed again, so you don't have too much time before your wedding! I'd recommend going two or three days before your wedding so the possible redness/swelling goes away before your wedding day (however everyone's skin is different, and if you go soon then you will know how your skin reacts- you don't want to be miserable for your wedding day!)

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  • Kelly
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    Hi Sarah! Everyone above me has given great advice on waxing. I personally waxed for 4 years, switched to waxing and haven't gone back!! I seriously recommend it, especially for your wedding and honeymoon! Agreeing with the others, I would start going now, the first one is the worst and it only gets easier! Smiley smile Let me know if you have any other questions about it!

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  • Chase
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    I 100% think you should! If you start now, you can get more comfortable with it and then be able able to time out your final pre-honeymoon wax just right. It’s not fun but it could be worse. I was most horrified about someone seeing my lady parts but they see so many. Oh and just go for Brazilian while you’re at it!
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  • C
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    Cuoghi ·
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    If you shave abd are ok with that why wax now? I guess I don't see why. Personally I did laser years ago and it is awesome.
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  • Sarah
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    I haven’t quite figured out how not to get razor bumps yet. I’ve tried all the “hacks” and nothing works. Plus I tend to get bored and miss some spots 😂😂
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  • Mrs. S
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    It’s worth it to do the Brazilian but it hurts so much. I cried the first time.
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  • Chantelle
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    I hadn’t been waxed before I started going for wedding prep and now I won’t go back to shaving! I would highly suggest going now, so you can go 3 times before the wedding (I go about every 4 weeks). If you’ve never been waxed before, I don’t suggest going full Brazilian the first time. And I second the sugar wax. From my understanding most salons offer that now (according to my wax lady). I started with bikini first, just to see how much it would hurt/how my skin would react. Then went to French (just left a “landing strip”, but didn’t include the butt), then moved to Brazilian. It does hurt, but much less than I expected! Try to find somewhere that serves you a mimosa before hand (my place does!!) 😉.
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  • K
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    I didn't read the previous replies so I could totally be regurgitating info - but here's my take.

    1) Yes it's worth it. I used to shave as well (up until about 18 months ago) and the outcome with waxing is so much nicer - it's cleaner not bumpy, no dark shadows (I have really thick hair) lasts so much longer and grows in really nice.

    2) Brazilian. I used to do only bikini and then about 4 sessions in my lady was like are you sure you don't want to try Brazilian ... so I caved. The backside doesn't hurt, really, at all (IMO).

    3) The pain isn't that bad. I just had a pretty painful wax 'cause it was AWHILE (weddings are expensive!!) and it was a few days before my period and super hot. I have found that being super hot makes it more uncomfortable (and needs to be done a few times if sweating) and before your period makes it a bit more sensitive but overall it is tolerable. It might hurt a day afterwards as well. Give yourself a 48 hour window until you need to be comfortable! I say on a 1(low) - 10(high) ... it's a 4.

    4. Yes. Start now. You should be able to get at least two in, MAYBE three. You may need to let the first one grow a little bit longer than you want to make sure you can have a fresh wax for your wedding/honeymoon but start now.

    SIDENOTE: I just had my upper lip waxed for the first time on Sunday and I am breaking out slightly (to be expected) and my lip still hurts nearly 48 hours later ... so, keep that in mind with your lip DEFINITELY start that one now to experiment. The lip hurt but I will keep getting it waxed 'cause it looks really nice and my foundation lays a little better.


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  • MrsD
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    So there are two types of wax, hard & soft wax. They say soft wax is less extreme and doesn't pull as hard. But it takes longer. I personally HATE soft wax, I was in so much more pain because it took longer. I would do brazilian as long as you're doing bikini (if it were me). For hard wax, it was painful for me but not as bad as getting a tattoo. For soft wax, I almost stopped a few times. Taking advil before is a good idea, several salons also will put numbing creme on if you come in early so I'd ask about that since it's your first time! Then ice after. Your hair has to be long to wax, so I'd go ASAP then right before your wedding. It depends how fast your hair grows.

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