My fiancé and I have been engaged for 2 years now, and we've decided to start planning as we'd like to get married in 2023. We decided we wanted something intimate, small and very casual and laid back. We found the perfect venue-an old rectory which is an amazing price, has accommodation for us and the guests, is licensed for wedding ceremonies (I'm not in the US, in my country a building has to be licensed by the local council for a wedding to legally take place there), right by the sea and allows us to self cater-we want a big bbq/grill. It sounds perfect, we want to have good food and just chill all evening, no big disco or anything like that. We want a small wedding, and we have no friends to invite so it'll probably be 25 people or under. However, I'm really worried that our families issues are going to ruin this.
To put it shortly, our families don't like each other. My family and his family get on fine, but within our families, they can't get along (if that makes sense, I didn't know how to explain lol). Both our parents are divorced and hate each other and there's other people in the family who hate each other. With the small amount of guests and the intimate nature of the wedding, I'm worried that this will be really awkward. I feel like it'll be like a school playground where everyone is sat round in groups which puts pressure on us as bride and groom because we don't know who to sit with. His mum will be alone too as the only people she'll know is her ex husband and his family.
I really don't know what to do because I want to have my dream wedding, but I don't want to be sitting awkwardly and feeling all the tension. I'm thinking maybe we could just invite a couple of other people, maybe ask our parents to invite some of their friends? It'll be extra money and I'd prefer not to have people who we don't know there, but it'll bulk it out a bit. Ughhhh what do I dooooooo???
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