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Natasha, on April 9, 2024 at 12:21 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 6

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So my soon to be father in law is going to be my batman at the wedding which means if anyone is starting fights wearing white and just gonna be a problem during the day he will be in charge if dealing with it because unfortunately my soon to be mother in law is the type to show up to her sons wedding in a white dress and to pick a fight with me does anyone else have someone designed to do this too or no

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Latest activity by Michael, on April 16, 2024 at 2:48 AM

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Cece Online · on April 9, 2024 at 9:33 PM
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We had no need for anything like this. If you feel the need to have security, I would highly suggest hiring a professional. Your FFIL should be allowed to attend as a guest and simply enjoy watching his son get married. He shouldn’t be strapped with the stress of having to monitor others actions.
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CM · on April 9, 2024 at 10:29 PM
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If your future mother in law shows up in a white dress, what do you propose should be done about it? The reflection is on her, not you. Don’t give her the satisfaction of a reaction. If I was worried about someone’s behavior to the point of needing security they wouldn’t be invited, mother or no mother.
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Natasha · on April 9, 2024 at 11:11 PM
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Mother in has been invited do to other family drama but she might show up
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Natasha · on April 9, 2024 at 11:13 PM
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My FFIL has completely offered to do security while as a guest my FFIL has also done security professionally so that's the least of my worries
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Michelle · on April 10, 2024 at 12:42 PM
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You cannot police what anyone except you yourself wears. If the venue has a mandatory dress code, then they enforce it, not you. It’s not appropriate for you or your guests to take on this role. Security, which is often required by venues, is for safety of those in attendance, not being the fashion police.
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Michael · on April 16, 2024 at 2:48 AM
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Whether she comes and whether she wears a white dress (which should not be a big deal if she does not get confused for the bride) should not be the big concern. It is the physical or verbal fight that would be the problem. If you have enough evidence to get a restraining order, you would have more protection against her intrusion. If you think you can get through the ceremony without interruption, then just get through that as best as possible. If someone needs to keep her from moving toward you, have that person ready -- but without initiating contact with her -- due to "assault" claims. The idea of security may help if you think she will pick a fight with you.
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