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Lynnie
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Smoking - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?

Lynnie, on August 13, 2019 at 11:45 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 72

How do you feel about smoking? Is it just a nasty habit you don't like, or is it a total deal breaker?

Red Flag or Deal Breaker?


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72 Comments

Latest activity by Emily, on March 2, 2024 at 1:48 PM
  • Tamera
    Expert May 2020
    Tamera ·
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    Definitely a deal breaker. Not only is it a bad habit that makes everything smell like smoke, it's not healthy.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    This is surprisingly something I'm ok with aha.
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
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    Not a deal breaker, but FH and I have quit smoking together. We both use to smoke socially but have quit cold turkey now.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    If you can’t quit, deal breaker. It’s unhealthy and it stinks.
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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
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    Total deal breaker. I find it unattractive.

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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
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    Neither. My FH used to smoke but quit years ago, and I was a smoker until about 2 months after I moved in with him!

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  • Meghan
    Super September 2019
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    Definitely a deal breaker.

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    It's just gross. I'd make them smoke outside as I have scrubbed too many stained walls from the smoke. 🤢
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  • Mary
    Expert July 2019
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    Thankfully, this is a deal breaker for both of us. My family has a history of lung cancer from second-hand smoking. 😕
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
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    Deal breaker, I don’t like the smell.
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  • Denise
    Super September 2019
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    I don't care one way or another here. I have Ex's that were smokers, who hated the habit and some who were social smokers. Doesn't bother me one way or another

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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2019
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    Definitely a deal breaker. My kids have asthma and horrible allergies. Thankfully FH is not a smoker.
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  • Anna
    Savvy August 2020
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    Deal breaker. It’s a terrible habit and a waste of money
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    I'm not a smoker but he is. He only smokes in one spot of the apartment though so it hasn't been a real issue. I grew up in a house of smokers so i'm used to it. I don't like it though. I lost my mom to lung cancer when she was only 38

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  • Birdie
    Savvy June 2021
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    Ugh, I hate it. But every partner I've ever had has been a smoker. So neither.

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  • Laura
    Expert September 2019
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    Definitely a deal breaker! It's a disgusting habit and very unattractive.

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  • Monique
    Devoted August 2020
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    Definitely a deal breaker, my Gido died from lung cancer and I hate the smell of smokes

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  • Sara
    Expert October 2020
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    It was a deal breaker, but FH hid it really well in the beginning and even quit for a while when I found out. He smokes now and I hate it. We have a little tiff about it like once a week. I just don't understand because he has to buy organic food and stuff and then sticks cancer sticks into his mouth and lungs multiple times a day. I hope he quits soon.

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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
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    Deal breaker. My whole family smokes and I’ve always found it absolutely disgusting. I can’t stand the smell.
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  • Tracy
    Dedicated August 2020
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    100% deal breaker

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