I am so confused about how to handle my seating charts. The way my venue is set up, there are twelve tables of twelve in the main ballroom, and there is a sunporch attached to the ballroom with additional tables of 8. The way I have it set up now, all of my friends (high school and college friends, which includes the maid of honor and best man, and officiant) and my cousins are all in the sunroom. I feel like it would be nicer to have the bridal party in the main room but I just can't figure out how to make it work without dividing common groups of people to be dispersed into random tables. What do you think are the rules in this regard?