We are 43 days out from our big day and trying to get people to RSVP is like pulling teeth with a pair of tweezers. Deadline was Monday, April 1, 2024. With a 2 week extension of Monday, April 15, 2024. I've had a good bit to RSVP but there is still some that hasn't even bothered and I have followed up with them and some has told me they are coming but yet they refuse to simple RSVP on our wedding site. All I can say is pure laziness. I have taken the time to invite them, at least they can do is take 1 to 2 minutes to RSVP. After the 15th and they still haven't RSVPed they will be considered a NO and they have been told. So I feel like if they can't simply click a few buttons to RSVP then they need not show up. I need the head count for the caterer. So if they show up after they didn't RSVP, I will be meeting with my wedding planner on April 21st and I will give her full permission to ask them to leave. and she will have a list of the ones that was too lazy to bother clicking a few times to RSVP. I'm refuse to pay to feed a bunch of lazy inconsiderate people. If you can't do one simple thing, then you don't deserve to come sit and enjoy a meal I paid for. Sorry for the Bridezilla rant.
Here is a screen shot of the guest list percentage. I understand we won't have 100% and I am ok with that. But for those that have say they are coming need to confirm their attendance. It's not too much to ask.