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Devoted February 2023

Remembrance Song during wedding

Elycia, on June 3, 2022 at 11:54 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 3

My husband and I are looking to honor loved ones who passed before being able to attend our wedding, most notably his step-father and younger sister who died of COVID in 2020. His step-father was an incredibly important person in his life and we really want a special way to honor them.

We know the tables with photos and little keepsakes are common, but for my husband and I that just doesn't seem enough for his step dad and sister. We've decided to try and incorporate a song, but we don't really know how to do it without it seeming too funeral.

I've thought of making an announcement during reception and have everyone dance to the song, thought about having the song be the mother-son dance (that seems to only honor his step-dad though), or a moment of silence where the song is played. All seem a little awkward to us though.

Any ideas of how to incorporate this?


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Latest activity by Shannon, on June 5, 2022 at 11:49 PM
  • Brittany
    Devoted October 2022
    Brittany ·
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. These ideas are beautiful.

    I love the idea of making an announcement during reception and have everyone dance to the song - especially if it's something upbeat like Together Again by Janet Jackson. I added this to our playlist to honor my aunt and grandma who passed years ago but were very important to me. I don't think we'll have an announcement but my fiancé and I will know the significance of it.

    If it's a slower song, I think the mother-son dance would be a good option too! There could be an announcement about how it is an family dance that honors his stepfather and sister and brings their memory to the dancefloor.

    Did you have any song ideas?

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    Devoted February 2023
    Elycia ·
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    He's chosen "Lifetime" by Three Days Grace. Definitely not upbeat, but lyrics that mean a lot to him.

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  • Shannon
    Super July 2022
    Shannon ·
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    You could make an announcement to remember those who have passed. Form a circle, holding hands and play, In My Life by The Beatles.
    We are doing this towards the end of our reception.
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