Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

F
Dedicated November 2019

Rehearsal Dinner - Are invitations really Necessary?

Fia, on August 20, 2019 at 2:38 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 22
Hello WW,

So I need honest opinions and feedback. Are rehearsal dinner invitations a thing? Does this apply to all scenarios? In our case, we are only having the wedding party and immediate family in attendance. We aren't inviting out of town guest etc. So everyone who are at our actual rehearsal already will be in attendance. Do I still need to send a formal invitation? Or do I need to send an invite for the rehearsal? Lost & Confused on this aspect of wedding etiquette.

Thanks in advance.

22 Comments

Latest activity by Josh, on September 12, 2019 at 8:15 PM
  • C
    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I didn’t do an invitation per say, but I did include a details card in with the invitations of those that would be attending. It included location date and time, but did not request an RSVP
    • Reply
  • Sara
    Devoted April 2020
    Sara ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Honestly I never thought it was needed if it’s just your wedding party and immediate family. I was in a friends wedding last year and she did invites for the dinner and it was the first time I’ve seen it honestly. I think it’s fine if you do but not a necessity
    • Reply
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    A formal invitation isn't always necessary, but I would at least send them the details of the dinner somehow, even if it's just an email or group chat.

    • Reply
  • Fmv
    Super October 2020
    Fmv ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I plan on making my own rehearsal dinner invite on canva and printing them cheap. We are inviting the wedding party, immediate family and anyone who is being walked down. I plan on sending our invites due to the fact that I want it to be clear what time everything is happening. I feel like some of the wedding party could try to flake on the day before so I just want to make it very clear

    • Reply
  • Arielle
    Expert August 2020
    Arielle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I don't think a formal paper invitation or anything like that is needed. I would just keep those who you would like there updated on what the details are for the dinner.

    • Reply
  • Formerbride
    VIP June 2019
    Formerbride ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I've never gotten an invitation to a rehearsal dinner. We didn't send invitations either. We just told people the details.
    • Reply
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I just sent and invite with all of the details to my family since we only had a BM and MOH. It was a small group.
    • Reply
  • R
    Super September 2018
    Rachel ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    We did evites through minted. They were super cute and we could collect RSVPs that way! My husband and I attend a lot of out of town weddings, so it’s much more helpful and considerate of our time if we know in advance if/when there will be a rehearsal and rehearsal dinner and if we’re both invited or not. It doesn’t have to be a formal paper invite or evite, but some kind of communication a couple weeks before is great.
    • Reply
  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    We just gave word of mouth invites to everybody.
    • Reply
  • M
    Savvy February 2018
    M ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Nope I just sent an email
    • Reply
  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I’ve never been formally invited to a rehearsal dinner, just Facebook messaged, texted, or told, which I think works perfectly well. I don’t think you need to spend money on invitations for the rehearsal dinner.
    • Reply
  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
    Nemo ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Rehearsal Dinner - Are invitations really Necessary? 1

    We sent one that matched our invitation suite and just included it with our invitations for the guests that were invited to the rehearsal dinner. It cost us around $20 for 20ish of them.

    • Reply
  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Word of mouth is fine. But if you want to ensure everyone has all of the same details, then email should work as well.

    • Reply
  • Sara
    Super October 2019
    Sara ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I think as long as you can spread all the necessary details to those invited, you don't need physical invitations. I took advantage of a Shutterfly offer of 10 free cards (we just paid shipping), and that was enough to cover our families and wedding party, so we're sending cards.

    • Reply
  • L
    Lady ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    No, especially if it's small, you can just tell people when you let them know the time and place for the rehearsal.

    • Reply
  • Danielle
    Savvy May 2021
    Danielle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I'm not doing invitations - just word of mouth. It's an easy way to save money by not doing formal invites for Rehearsal Dinner.

    • Reply
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I used evite for it just because it's nicer to have all the info in one spot for them to refer to. I put the address of the rehearsal site and rehearsal dinner.
    • Reply
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We included rehearsal dinner invites in our invitations, but we had 70 people at our rehearsal dinner! I think texting is fine if it's a smaller group.

    • Reply
  • F
    Dedicated November 2019
    Fia ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Thanks everyone. I think I'll do an Evite.
    • Reply
  • J
    Master October 2019
    Jolie ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We didn't do invites. It's wedding party, our parents, and SO's. That's it. Word of mouth to the bridal party and that their SO's are invited to is the only method we are using.

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics