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Just Said Yes December 2024

Place for my son in the wedding

Nicole, on March 8, 2024 at 9:37 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 15

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I have been a single mom all of my adult life. My son is now 18 and I’ll be getting married. I am trying to decide the best place for him in the wedding so that I can make him know he’s an important part of it. I’ve narrowed it down to 3 possibilities…
1) have him and my father walk me down the aisle
2) have him be a brides-man up there with me 3) have him be a groomsman to my husband to be along with his sonI am also wanting to incorporate a sand union aspect of the ceremony to include both boys as well. What sounds like it would be the best? I short my son and he basically said where ever I want him to be he will gladly go.

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Latest activity by Amanda, on April 7, 2024 at 6:50 PM

CM · on March 8, 2024 at 1:04 PM
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I would do #3 along with #1 if having him walk with you down the aisle wouid be meaningful to you. I like the idea of him being a groomman, not for sexist reasons, but to symbolize that despite his age you are all becoming family.
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Alisha · on March 8, 2024 at 1:45 PM
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I am/was a single parent before I got married as well. My son was 18 as well and I wanted him to be a part of our wedding. So we had him as a groomsmen in our wedding.
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Michelle · on March 8, 2024 at 1:59 PM
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Have him walk you down the aisle or stand on your side.
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Jacks · on March 8, 2024 at 9:44 PM
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What's your son's preference? Does he have one?
I'd have him walk you down the aisle or stand on your side. However, I think any of the options are meaningful!
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Just Said Yes December 2024
Nicole · on March 9, 2024 at 9:06 AM
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Thank you for your input everyone.
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Just Said Yes December 2024
Nicole · on March 9, 2024 at 9:06 AM
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He said where ever I want him lol so he has no preference
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Jacks · on March 9, 2024 at 2:55 PM
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I don't think you can go wrong here, then!
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Skylar · on March 10, 2024 at 9:46 PM
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I love the idea of having him walk down the aisle with you! It would be really cute and meaningful, and he could stay up there during the ceremony (as a "bridesman") or a groomsman
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Traci · on March 11, 2024 at 9:51 AM
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I know it's corny but do whatever you want. He is open to whatever. If he is a groomsmen he can make a connection with the other brother.
But my father is passed,so my son will be giving me away. Then he will go stand beside the groomsmen.
Good luck happy planning 💜
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Teresa · on March 17, 2024 at 9:54 PM
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Have him along with your father split the walk one of them walk you half way to meet the other and the other finish the walk.
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Jenn · on March 27, 2024 at 4:35 PM
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Why not make him the man of honor. He could be a huge part of your day. He would also be signing the marriage license too, which may make him feel more important.
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Nicole · on March 27, 2024 at 5:32 PM
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❤️ thank you so much. So sorry for your loss
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Nicole · on March 27, 2024 at 5:32 PM
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Would he just wear what the groomsmen wear?
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Jenn · on March 27, 2024 at 5:50 PM
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Yes, that way he's more comfortable
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