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Just Said Yes October 2024

Non-physical gifts for shower?

Claire, on February 3, 2024 at 5:11 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 3

Hi! So for a little context, I am from the US and my FH is from England, both of us respectively born and raised where we're from. Our wedding is going to be here in my home state but afterwards I'm going to be moving permanently to live in England with him. Because of this, our wedding registry is actually UK based so that gifts can be sent directly to his home there and we don't have to worry about shipping all of it over on top of everything I already own.

My question is, should I set up a separate registry for the bridal shower and just deal with having extra to ship later? I keep being told that the whole point of the bridal shower is gift giving and that the people who attend will want to watch me open what they have given, so I'm worried I will be causing an issue by asking for everything to be sent ahead to England. However, I think it would look strange to accept physical gifts there but then turn around and ask for everyone else to use the UK based registry if they want to gift us anything.

What do y'all think?

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Latest activity by CM, on February 8, 2024 at 11:25 AM
  • Michael
    Rockstar October 2023
    Michael ·
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    Can the gathering be identified as a party just to celebrate your engagement? Are you okay enjoying this party without gifts? The other option is that people be notified only to use the UK registry if they want to give gifts and then just have them give you a card sharing what they are giving.

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    Rockstar June 2018
    Rae ·
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    I think you should keep everything on your UK registry and skip the gift-opening. A lot of people are veering away from that these days anyway, I'd just make sure you have enough games to keep people entertained.

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    CM ·
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    IMO it’s not strange to have a shower here with a US based registry, then share a link to a UK based registry on your website or spread by word of mouth for the benefit of other guests. You would have to ship though. I agree that there’s no point to a shower and it seems gift grabby if you’re just going to just tell people to send gifts ahead.


    In that case I’d forgo a shower and just have an engagement party where gifts are not expected, though some will likely bring or send. Anyone not invited to the shower can send an engagement and or wedding gift off of your UK registry.
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