Need Advice Sept vs Nov md Wedding

Hi ladies! 👋 Just wanted to see some opinions for those who've had or been to weddings in Sept or Nov in MD. We're getting married at a winery in Thurmont, but the only 2 fall dates left are Sept 17th and Nov 5th. We really wanted the backdrop of the trees when they have changed color and I think we'd probably have that for the November date. But we're worried about lighting and having enough time for pics since day lights savings starts that day. Looks like we'd have to do a first look. I know the temperature is a hit or miss, but the Sept date I'm assuming will be just like summer. Only the ceremony and pics will be outdoors. Anyways just wanted to see any advice you ladies might have. Thank you!!!