Long story short. i never had my birth dads last name till about three years ago when i could finally afford to legally change it. and now im torn on what to do. I want to take my soon to be husbands last night but i dont want to necessarily get rid of my dads last name. so do i move it to my middle name? do i hyphenate it even though my current last name (dads) and my soon to be husbands both start with S.
my dad wont care either way and neither does my soon to be husband- bless his heart. but i myself am torn on what to do given ive waited a long time to not only have my dads last name but to find my prince and marry the man of my dreams.