I guess this is more of a vent than anything else, but also just hoping someone else experienced something similar and can assure me it will pass.
I'm the oldest and the first kid to get married in my generation. My mom had me very young and was a single mother for a while. We have always (for the most part) and still do have an amazing relationship. She has been nothing but amazing about the whole thing, so it's definitely nothing she's saying to me (she's actually been trying to hide how sad she is). But between me getting married, her going through menopause, and my baby brother graduating college next year, she's been a hot mess of just sadness and yesterday she admitted to me that she feels so lost and without purpose now that the two of us are moving on with our lives.
I know this is a natural feeling for parents - especially mothers to go through (and yes, my current battle is trying to get her to go to therapy) when their kids grow up, and I know none of her feelings are my responsibility. I just hate seeing her so sad and I'm worried that she'll spend my whole wedding being depressed. I've told her that I will ALWAYS need her and that hopefully by this time next year, she'll have a grandkid and then I'll need her even more. And then I'll need her in 25 years when MY kids are moving on.
has anyone else had this experience with a parent they are extremely close to? How did you cope even knowing it was ultimately their issue to work through? Did it eventually pass for them? Is there anything I can do to try and keep the whole wedding thing extra light?
Regardless, thanks for reading.