So my FH finally decided he wants to get married - he’s the kind of guy who just never saw the point in it. We’ve been together for almost 10 years and I’m beyond excited… and he’s getting pretty excited going through the planning process. This month, we got an awesome opportunity to have our wedding at my dream venue… at the end of September of this year! I was thinking maybe that’s too short of a notice, but if I get Save the Dates out by the end of this month, that gives everyone 6 months notice. I talked to my mom and close friends before paying the deposit and finalizing the date.
Today my mom tells me that she forgot that she will have my sister’s kids that weekend and my sister will be out of town. My sister and I aren’t overly close, so I hadn’t talked to her before finalizing the date, but I just always assumed she’d be there. It’s not that we don’t get along, we just live 8 hours apart and have never had a close relationship.
So the question…. My sister is going to a weekend concert festival. Has already bought her tickets and secured a hotel so she said she can’t change her plans. If the situation was reversed I can tell you I would sell my concert tickets and cancel the hotel, but that’s me and I can’t expect her to change he her plans. So do I push our date out a year so she can be there, or continue without her?
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