Hello beautiful people! I don't know what to do! A close friend of mine got engaged a few weeks after me and I am so excited for them! However, about a week after my fiancee and I set our date she tected me that they set their date for the week before us. I am nervous because in the recent past (before either of us were ever engaged) she has talked about having me as a bridesmaid. I don't know if I'll be able to handle the stress of being in a wedding one week before mine. I just think I'll be too stressed out about last minute things with my wedding that I won't be able to be there for her 100%. Not to mention the expenses that come along with being a bridesmaid on top of planning and paying for my own wedding. My mom says it's an honor when someone asks you to be in their wedding so I should say yes. My other friend says I'll be too worried about my own wedding that I should just go as a guest. Should I say yes to being a bridesmaid if she asks me? Should I say no to save my sanity? If I say no, how do I say it without hurting her feelings?
Appreciate any advice!