Has anyone else felt this way? My FH and I have been together 9.5 years, and my in laws/ my FH whole family has always said how they can't wait for us to be engaged, and they "couldn't have picked anyone better for him" I know our wedding isn't for 2.5 years, but my in laws, especially my FMIL, is so excited. She wanted to see my ring the next day when we went to visit, she's talking about how she can't wait to throw me a bridal shower, and wants to help pay for what they can.
However my mom barely gave a congratulations, didn't ask to see my ring, and when i did show her just said "Ah" and was pretty emotionless. She did offer to help pay for the venue we love, but then when I told her we were going to book soon she was hesitant to help. We have a family group chat and my brothers, and grandparents don't mind talking about wedding stuff with me, but she's just seems so uninterested. When I jokingly said in the group chat "Wow FMIL is just as excited as me and already wants to plan my bridal shower, lol" My mom replied with "that's good because I didn't even think that was a thing."
Has anyone else ever had family like this? I'm so excited to just look at wedding stuff, and get ideas, but feel like she just keeps shutting me down and I feel so sad about it. Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I'm a little emotional.