My mother-in-law retired and sold her house at the beginning of this year and has been staying with her sister and brother-in-law until she moves to Ohio in July. As a result of retiring, she has a ton of free time so she has come to our house, which is about four hours from where she lives, multiple times as we are preparing to have our first baby. Every time we go out to dinner at least once and the other nights I cook and she never once offers to help pay when we go out or to help make dinner whereas I always offer to help her when we would visit. She knows I lost my job last year because of Covid so we don't have a ton of extra money especially with a baby coming. I'm wondering if I'm wrong for feeling like it would be nice if she would just even offer or if because she's a guest at our house we are required to buy her dinner or make her meals when she stays over.
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