Anyone else having issues with their mother in law? My mother in law constantly craves and needs attention. it doesn't matter if it's positive or negative attention she needs and craves it and everything has to be all about her. Just recently we went to our Niece's 1st birthday party and M.I.L was nowhere to be found? My brother In law kept askng my Husband if he had heard from mom? My Husband said no! Finally they get a call from their mother and she said she was running late because she needed to charge her phone. Long story short once she got on the road to come to the party they get another call claiming she was lost ( She had her GPS on) hours go by she is still not their and my poor sister in law was so upset because she was ready to do the cake but kept holding out for our mother in law. Finally she arrives and says Oh sorry I was late! Than proceeds to make her sons wait on her hand and foot at the party. They did the cake and the party was pretty much over than we cleaned up. Than our mother in law proceeds to continue to draw attention to herself. ( What kind of grandmother tries to upstage their own 1 year old granddaughter?) It was extremely embarrassing and I felt bad for my brother and sister in law.
Later than day My Mother In Law Proceeds to tell my Husband and I we need to sell our house and move in with her pay her rent and help her with her bills ( She said this will be a way we can save for a bigger house) I looked at her like she was crazy and said Oh so you want us to move backwards Instead of forward? At that point my blood was boiling and My husband and I told her we are a young married couple and have no interest In living with you! It's not healthy for a young married couple who want privacy. She than proceeds to say I wont bother you guys I'm always in my bedroom. I once again said No we are not moving in with you and my Husband agreed! I also threw in there that I don't like clutter nor cleaning up after people who refuse to clean up after themselves. ( My M.I.L does not clean and their is clutter everywhere the house is a mess) She proceeds to say well you can clean up and throw all this stuff out and make it livable for you. I said I will not clean up nor will throw out any mess that you made yourself over the years! I walked out of the house and burst into tears! I am honestly starting to resent her because she oversteps boundaries and on more than one occasion has been disrespectful to me. Not sure how I can mend a relationship with her. Any advice is greatly appreciated.