I feel kind of defeated in the MIL department. Any time I ask her opinion on something or ask her to help with something she seems very uninterested. But then I don't ask her something and she gets upset with my fiancé saying we never ask for her opinion on anything. Why would I continue to ask for her opinion if she doesn't seem to care?
So far I have invited her to tour venues, which she didn't go to until the last one when we were putting down the deposit and she gave no input on whether or not she liked it, she came to our engagement pictures to help with our dog, which was nice of her, I invited her dress shopping and she didn't go and didn't seem to care one way or the other, she came to he bridal show with me, my mom, and my friend and she seemed kind of interested there, I had her choose the bar package but she still didn't seem to care which wines we chose, I asked for her input on the rehearsal dinner venue and she basically was like "just take my credit card, I don't care", I had my fiancé ask her about transportation because she expressed interest in it before and then she got all mad at him for I don't know what and then we still had to organize it, and after she complained about "not giving her input" I asked her to do 1 job which was put together a toiletry basket for the bathrooms and she was just like "ok sure" which I know she will wait until last minute to finish, I asked her for pictures of family members months ago and still don't have them! We are almost 6 weeks away and she JUST got her dress.
So I have tried to involve her where I can but it's so hard to when she doesn't seem interested in anything I ask her about and she's so last minute. She also never reaches out to us about any of it, where my mom is always calling and asking what needs done or what can she do to help.
Any advice?
