Losing my marbles

So we are getting married 11/27 this year 😁❤️ & really trying to have a small ceremony and bigger reception. The idea for the ceremony initially was 50 people..you know just looking at it from afar….but really we ended up with a little over 100 with aunts uncles cousins 😧… our reception is about 180 people. How in the world do we reduce the people at the ceremony without a mess?


Should we just have everyone there? We are doing all of the pictures before everything too so the nerves should be lessened (because we are both sometimes over stimulated in a crowd) but we really want the intimacy of a small ceremony. Woof.