My husband and I are expecting our first child. My baby shower is attentively scheduled for March in my home state of Pennsylvania. My husband and I live in Maryland, but we would stay with my parents for the weekend. Most of my husband's family lives in New Jersey and his mom is moving to Ohio by the end of this year. My mom is hosting my shower and my husband wants her to send invites to his family for the shower, but he is going to tell them only to attend virtually so I'm trying to understand his logical behind us spending the money on invites if he is just going to turn around and tell them they can't actually physically attend because he isn't comfortable with people from different states at one party. Maybe you guys can explain his logical because I don't get the point of sending his family invites to a party he's telling them they can't actually attend.