Hi! As the title says, I'm currently wondering if it's appropriate to let a friend know that I will not be honoring them as a bridesmaid.
The reason why I ask is because what would you all do if they are about to ask you to be theirs but you know you won't be asking them? I've been fortunate to have many girl friends who I can ultimately consider as my bridesmaid. However, for this specific friend, unfortunately I won't be asking her. It ultimately came down to my overall feelings about our friendship being more surface level despite being long time friends. The overall number of my bridal party also came into play. She's definitely the type to get upset as well and so, I would love to get any insight on how you would handle the situation.