I have been soo stressed knowing that there's a month and a half left, and only one of the groomsmen have gone to get measured for their tuxes. FH hasn't even gone yet, but he says he's going sunday with his brothers and our downstairs neighbor who is a groomsman. I really hope they go, so I have less to stress about.
I had my alterations appointment yesterday and decided not to bring up the hem, and to just do a bustle. I have 2 layers on my dress, so the bottom layer has 1 point, super simple, and the top layer has 3, since I have some fabulous beading on the bottom of my train. I also chose a sparkly button for the top point! I'm excited, but sometimes I wonder if I'm too over the top with my sparkles ( I mean, I do have a huge statement headpiece that's practically a crown, sparkly earrings and necklace, as well as silver sparkly shoes, AND the sparkly button! Also, I have 2 Veils.), BUT thennnnn, nahh. it's my day, I'm totally glamming it up!
I decided to do tea as my wedding favors with rock sugar, and I'm going to see about printing little tea packet pockets to put the tea bags and sugar in, but I might not. I don't know yet. I had to order 2 pounds of loose leaf tea and 4 pounds of rock sugar! Thank goodness for Amazon!
I have also been stressing about the music because FH has been very slow about giving me the music list. He has a bad habit of procrastinating, and it makes me a wreck. I also have really bad control issues, so that doesn't help. I have a very hard time letting go of control.
I also have to tell my venue about my flowers for my bouquet, my flowers for my bridesmaids bouquets, and the boutonnieres, but I have that part figured out for the most part.
I also have to get about 40 more RSVPs before I can do my seating chart, and I was stressing about how many people weren't coming, because we invited over 200 people, but at least 100 have said no, but I decided to not worry about it because we also expected at least 40 people from my dad's side alone to automatically say no because they don't know me, which is fine with me that they don't want to come. No hurt feelings there.
The section on my guest list that hurts the most to look at is the section for my friends. I am a little disappointed by it because I don't have a lot of friends where I live now. All of my friends from my hometown have said they cannot come, which I understand because all but one of them have young kids under 5 or are pregnant. One is actually due 6 days after my wedding! I will definitely miss them, but I plan on having someone like my non professional photographer do a facebook live video during my Ceremony.
How long do you have to go and what do you have left to do?
