Hello everyone, please excuse me if i make any spelling mistakes because English is not my first language. I will try to explain my situation to the best of my abilities.
A good friend of mine (male) which i have known for about 8 years is getting married this summer. We have a big friend group and live in a small town so everyone knows eachother. I also know his soon to be wife, and we have been on multiple trips as a friend group (her included). Me and another friend of mine (female) got invited to the wedding. We were very excited and as the wedding has a theme we started planning outfits already. Recently I got a message from the bride that I could not attend the wedding anymore because there was a schedueling error and they invited to many people. Of course I was pretty surprised by this but i did not want to cause any drama and said that everyone makes errors and I wished them the happiest day. To be honest I felt quite bad because the entire friend group is going, and my boyfriend of two years is a groomsmen ( i do not know if this is the right word but he is basically a special guest of the groom). So he will spent the whole day at the wedding while I am not invited. But like I said i did not want to cause drama so i let it go immediatly.
This was until a few days ago when i got a message that I was invited to the brides bacherlorette party. It was only going to be the girls from our friend group and the bride. All of which are inited to the wedding except me. I have no idea how I have to respond to this invite because to me it seems quite strange to be invited to the bachelorette party but not to the wedding? It makes me feel so uncomfortable. I have no idea how I should respond to this situation. Should I just be gratefull that I am invited and go to the party? What would you do in this situation? Is it justified that i feel a bit odd in this situation? Please let me know!