Invitation

You don't have to invite them. They are your brother's family now, but not really yours.

I agree with Hannah

Nope. We didn’t even consider it, to be honest, and no one had an issue with it. My husband hasn’t ever met my SIL’s parents, why would we invite them?

We are on her side, which is weird to me. But don't do it if you don't want to.

I am not inviting my sisters in-laws to our wedding. She didnt even expect me to. Dont do it if you dont want to!

No one can tell you who you have to invite.

If you don’t know them very well, I wouldn’t invite them. It’s odd that she has an issue with this, considering she didn’t invite your parent’s to hers.

I’m not inviting my brother-in-laws parents or siblings, it didn’t even cross my mind

Both of my brothers are married and their in-laws will be invited to my wedding! I see them every so often and consider them family. They're so nice so I'd love them to come if they can.

No, you don't have to invite them, as they are not really your "family". You most likely won't be including them in your future thanksgiving plans, for example, so your sister's logic is a bit off.

You don’t have to invite anyone you don’t want to, and I would ignore her comment. I am not inviting any of my brother in laws’ relatives except for one of them’s sister, as we were in their wedding together as bridesmaids and are decently close. My FH on the other hand seems to be inviting a lot of unusual extended relatives such as his brother in law’s mother and sister and brother in law. I don’t know how close they are but I have met them before and they are nice people. His mother also wants to invite her sister in law’s mother as well. Which I find really odd. Like I feel like I would not invite my aunt by marriage’s mother to my wedding. Her reasoning is that she is going on vacation with them and she may feel left out if the wedding is brought up 🙄🙄 I’m over it.

I wouldn't invite them. Why would you invite them unless you guys know them personally. We are not inviting my SILs parents or FHs BIL parents. That seems weird to me. They are not your family they are hers and your brothers, they have no relation to you or your future spouse.

I wouldn't consider them *your* family...

Putting myself in her shoes, I would not expect my FH's parents to be invited to any of my siblings future weddings. They don't know them. Kind of a hypocritical thing of her to ask of you, given your fiances parents aren't invited to her wedding.

Make it clear that the only people invited are the ones who are closest to you.

Heck, I'm not even inviting my grandma! She never wanted to be close to us, so she doesn't get to come.