In My Post Wedding Feels

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(Heard this song last night on the radio after getting home from work and it really is one of those rare songs that sums up not just the wedding day but my husband's and I's relationship. Also makes me feel warm and fuzzy during this crazy cold weather were having in Missouri 😊😬❄️💚)

I'm feeling a bit better after the whirlwind of our wedding day. Which despite it's issues and stress; it really was and is our best day ever. ⛪🥂💚
No wedding or wedding day is ever nor will it ever be perfect. It's just like how life isn't perfect & you nor your spouse will be perfect. But you love them entirely despite that. And you take the good with the bad because that is a part of them & that's what makes them who they are. & That's true love y'all. Loving someone unconditionally, entirely, and completely.
This is how I feel with my wedding day.
And seeing this next picture and a small couple of other ones from friends & family helps me feel a bit better that I wasn't able to take an intimate picture of my husband and I at our reception like I wanted to. Me looking at my husband like he is my everything and my best friend: because he is. And how a great, wonderful, caring, handsome, amazing man he is to me and has been throughout our relationship (despite the bad in me and our bad times) he continued and continues to do so. Just makes me feel so overwhelmed and blessed that this man...that used to be a stranger several years ago; became my boyfriend, then my best friend, then my fiance, and now and in the pic as I look at him; became my husband.
And I'm so forever and eternally blessed.
So this feeling alone, your marriage, and the love you share. Is ALL that matters ladies. I know (trust me) that it's easy to get swept up with how 'weddings are supposed to be' and how relationships even are 'supposed to be' and you want your photos to be like this and at this place and mainly with your husband and then have a list that this person goes next and follow that along with your entire timeline of the entire day and that everything should and will be perfect. HA. Trust me it won't be. And that's okay.
Because just like how true love is. That's also your wedding day. And you take the good with the bad and things that go wrong. Even if they seemed big to you before and even to myself it wasn't that long ago that I held sadness and regret in my heart; all it really is at end of the day is small little things and things that don't really matter.
All that matters is you're married to your best friend. And you are his/her "wife" or "husband". & you get to grow old with this person and share life with them. The bad, the good, and the great times. Because this, this is true love y'all.
Love you guys and congrats to those engaged and congrats to those already married. 🥂💍⛪ Sending positive vibes, loves, &hugs. As well as a Happy Halloween out there to y'all. May y'all have a blessed marriage filled with happiness, love, great health, success, & best memories. 💚💚