If you're having individual hen and stag nights... is it greedy to have a joint hen stag night too?

I know someone who sort of had both, but they were separate parties that met up later in the night, so no one had to come out twice for two parties.

I think if you were hosting two different groups of people for each, then that would be fine. But asking for 2 separate parties with the same guests may be a lot (especially if you are expecting them to contribute financially).

It’s asking too much IMO if it’s involving the same people.

We were wondering the same thing and ultimately decided we'd rather have a combined party than 2 parties which would essentially be the same group of people.

We're having our big party kind of together. We're doing destination and we're going at the same time and have the same resort we're staying at, but we have separate activities planned. Of course, there are some things we're going to do as a big group. We have a few dinners planned and whatnot, but we can also be separate and do our own thing.

Since this is a more costly trip, a lot of my party has dropped out so I'm also doing a local game night with my girls as well. No travel, no cost unless they want to bring something. Just a fun game night with my girls.