i want a reception but having a issue accepting family on both sides.

We eloped on May 15 2021 No support from family on either side for various reasons. Covid being one of them and Mostly all of them state they are busy with their own lives but they would be willing to come to our reception. We understood at the time. We chose to do our "celebration of marriage" on our 1 yr anniversary because of COVID this year which falls on a Sunday in 2022. I understand that people are busy with their lives, we are busy with ours as well. It's just I can't stomach our families don't talk to us hardly at all maybe once every 6 months or once a year on a holiday if that, But you are willing to come to our reception and celebrate our marriage with us and we suppose to be happy and joyous. I don't smother people not asking for people smother us. It's just everyone is so busy but over the years their lives are still the same predicament. We didn't get to do our first dance as husband and wife or cake cutting and that's important to me. I just want to still be able to do these things but lack people to do it with. We don't have any friends either Any ideas on this would be helpful thanks.