Ok so I am very much a goofy, playful, outgoing person who was a stage actress my whole life. Thankfully (most of) my bridesmaids are the same and so is the groom. BUT. The groomsmen are very introverted, traditional men who I can't see being fun or goofy for wedding photos or the video. We hired the videographer to film our wedding like an episode of The Office and my fiance is saying there is no way we are going to get his friends to do funny sketches or sarcastic Dialogue that isn't genuinely their vibe or words. I'm also worried we won't get any fun pictures, it'll be standard triangle groomsmen photos and straight line hands in pockets kind of pictures. My fiance doesn't seem comfortable telling them we want otherwise, or standing up to them in general about this, he seems to get nervous when I bring it up. So do I let it go and focus on having fun with my girls and groom and deal with the fact that the groomsmen won't be in the video commentary or fun pics? Or do I put my foot down and tell my fiance it's important to me and he needs to tell them, or do I reach out and gently and kindly tell them myself that it's important to us?
Thanks in advance 🥰
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