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Samantha
Super August 2022

How to Describe Attire on the Website

Samantha, on October 21, 2021 at 3:05 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 5

Hi everyone! We're hosting a wedding on the beach next August and I'm shooting for a "Beach Semi-Formal" look. Brides.com calls this Beach Semi-Formal/Cocktail and describes it as:

"Beach Semi-Formal/Cocktail

A dress, suit, formal romper, or jumpsuit all work for semi-formal. Feel free to include prints, avoiding anything too loud. If you choose to wear a beachy dress, consider it in either tea-length or maxi to avoid looking too casual. Dressy sandals, chunky heels, and wedges are acceptable footwear options.

While a jacket isn’t required, a breathable sport coat or unique blazer is a fun addition. Feel free to include prints, avoiding anything too loud. Shoes can be a little more casual, but still need to be closed-toe, such as a loafer or deck shoe. Shorts and sandals are not permitted."

I'm unsure how to best summarize this on my website. We're using Joy and there's a dress code section for each event on the schedule. We've already sent out the save the dates, as this is a destination wedding and we're trying to let everyone plan as far in advance as they'd like.

Some people have already starting looking at the website, and previously I just had "Beach Attire: Wear linen pants, short-sleeved button downs, summer dresses, and sandals." I'd like to lean a little more formal (and we have some guests that will probably undershoot whatever level of dress is stated so I'd like to be a little more specific).

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Latest activity by Samantha, on October 22, 2021 at 1:54 PM
  • Janet
    Expert October 2018
    Janet ·
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    A beach wedding ceremony already leans more towards semi-formal/daytime look vs cocktail which leans a tad more formal.

    Actually telling guests what kind of clothes and prints to wear like in the description in italics can be off putting to some because it goes into too much detail and guests may already have acceptable clothes that are not in the description. If the reception is more cocktail, I would just use that on the website and leave it. I would avoid putting clothing requirements unless the venue has these restrictions

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  • C
    Super July 2020
    Cool ·
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    I would just say cocktail attire. Since it’s at a beach, that part is implied. No need to over complicate 😊
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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
    Rosie ·
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    I agree with cool. By stating cocktail, people will know the level of formal you want, and knowing it's on a beach will figure the rest out themselves. You could put a special note in there about shoes if it's on the sand - "please note our ceremony will be on sand, so wedges, open sandals, boat shoes or loafers are likely to work best!" or similar?

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    I would keep it simple with “semi formal”. That is the default dress code for weddings that are not specifically black/white tie or casual. Trust your guests to be able to dress themselves unless the venue requires a dress code to be allowed on site. Make a note of proper shoes, and be aware that men dressing up in whatever they choose typically don’t wear sand-appropriate shoes. Living near the coastline, I can tell you that it is impossible to walk on sand unless you are barefoot, even in boat shoes and sandals.



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  • Samantha
    Super August 2022
    Samantha ·
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    Okay perfect. That's essentially what I was looking for! I wasn't planning on listing the patterns and such like Brides listed, I just wasn't sure how much of that information was actually needed. Thank you all so much!!!

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