Hi fellow OR brides!! Congrats on your engagement! I'm excited for all of us 
How is everyone doing with planning? I've got a start on narrowing down our venues, but I have no idea what else to do. When do we have an engagement party? Who hosts it? When do I pick bridesmaids? I wish there was an updated guide of all the things on this site somewhere - so far I found the "who pays for what" but it's mostly about the wedding itself... I need to know how to be engaged! When am I allowed to start wearing pants with bride on the booty?? 
(half kidding)
