Hi all! So my and my fiancee are in a situation where we may have to leave our upstairs duplex due to our neighbor. Long story short he had a kitchen fire (which I was home when this happened) that caused A LOT of damage to the downstairs apartment and we don't feel safe in the duplex if they don't evict him for that reason. He's like in his 70's. Anywho I need advice on how many engaged couples did the house thing before there wedding. My fiancee wants to get a house amd not rent anymore but I'm not to fond of that idea right now being I wasn't planning on buying a house until 2021 and I have a savings plan built for that timeline so I don't have a TON of money saved only like almost 5K and that's half of the budget for the wedding. I've been waiting on this wedding planning for a long time we've been engaged since Nov 2015. And our rent is SUPER cheap so I wanted to stay here as long as possible if we could. Am I selfish for thinking of the wedding before the house?