Honeymoon Frustration

I've posted a lot on here in recent days about places to go on a honeymoon. I guess it is what I am focused on right now. Our wedding is in 8 months and we have the venue, they do the food, I've got my dress, going in a couple weeks to look at BM dresses. Going on the 18th for a cake tasting. My aunt is doing the flowers and she said she had a big wedding to do at beginning of August so I'm not bothering her right now. I just don't know what I am suppose to do wedding wise right now so I've been looking at honeymoon locations. I know traditionally this is suppose to be FH's responsibility, but I'm just trying to get some ideas.

I talked to him last night about Florida and a cruise. I told him I really wanted to go somewhere other than Florida because we can go there all the time based on where we live. After contemplating a cruise, I dont know if it would be the best idea because we've both never been. I dont want to spend our honeymoon with us sick or crammed in with a lot of people.

So then I mentioned some US destinations..... I mentioned Colorado Springs and the Grand Canyon. I've also discovered Lake Tahoe. The flights to all 3 of these locations are cheap at the end of May which is when we would go because I'm a teacher and can't really take off a whole week during April. Any other suggestions? Having never been to that side of the country, we are both lost with places to go and things to do.

My FH is a veteran with a back injury that prevents him from doing certain outdoor things like hiking for long distances. I mentioned white water rafting in Colorado Springs and that might be too rough on his back as well. Its something we've both never done before.

His thought process is we have plenty of time to decide, but I guess I am a Type A personality and a planner. I am feeling overwhelmed that the wedding is in 8 months and while we have a lot done, there is still a lot to do. We haven't even taken engagement pictures yet.

At this point though, I am ready to put a bunch of different locations in a hat or throw a dart at a map to choose the honeymoon location 😂. I don't want to be responsible for choosing it all on my own as like a place that I want to go.