Gifts at Bachelorette Party

I gave small gifts to each of my friends who were at my bachelorette party. I bought various colors of heart-shaped sunglasses, wine bags in those same matching colors, and a different bottle of wine for each person. I chose to put together the gifts because each of my friends had to travel to attend (my bridesmaids each live in a different state across the country), and I wanted to show my appreciation for them being at the party. My MOH also put together little gift bags for everyone, which was super sweet, but totally not expected.

I don't think it's expected at all for the bride to give party favors/gifts at her own bachelorette party. Whoever is hosting the party might choose to purchase party favors for everyone attending, but even then I don't think anyone would miss the favors if they were skipped. It's a kind gesture if you choose to give gifts to those who attend your party, but it's not required by any means.

I think it really depends on the circumstances. My bachelorette was a surprise for me (my bridal party planned the whole thing without me knowing anything). That being said, my bachelorette was also a smaller, intimate one night event. I think the favors are more common for destination bachelorettes or more elaborate parties.

I don't think a gift is necessary for the bachelorette party. But you should definitely give them a gift closer to the wedding as a thank you gift. We gave our bridal party their gifts the night before the wedding at our rehearsal dinner.