It's been a long time thing of my FMIL driving me crazy with the wedding since we got engaged.
Now that we are getting closer to the wedding, only a few months out, and it has gotten SO much worse!
She is reaching out to some of our vendors instead of going through my FH and I. She offered to pay for things (which we told her she doesn't have to) but insist and then forgot and then called our florist to get a refund because she changed her mind, instead of calling us first so we can just give her the money (again we have no issue paying, we are paying for almost the whole wedding and didn't ask for help) . Now she keeps adding little projects and wanting me to come over to make them and adding/ buying décor i don't like but I don't have any time to do all these extra. I work 40+ hours a week, in the process of buying a house and trying to finish my other wedding stuff. She also keeps adding people to our wedding list but we are less than 3 moths out, I don't want to add any more people. We are already at 320 , when we originally had 290 (that's how many people she's been adding throughout the past 6-9 months) and made a guest list over a year ago. Not sure how to handle her... I am already stressed with the wedding, work, and house and she is literally making it so much worse right now. I try to tell her no but she is SOOOO pushy. I'm sure she is just so excited and trying to help (maybe) but I don't want to make it to where she feels like she can't be involved because i want her to be within reason. Thanks so much for reading and I am open to suggestions.