So I'm having a bit of a dilemma. We are getting married in March 2023 in Iowa, which means daylight goes away around 430pm so we know we have to make sure our portrait photos are done before the ceremony, which neither my fiance nor I have an issue with.
My issues is, this kind of requires or at least hints at doing some kind of first look, which I am all for. What bride doesnt want their future husband to be amazed and in awe when they see their future bride in her dress and all done up?
My concern is, my fiance is not the most emotional person, his outward behaviors dont always match his internal reactions either. I know that if we do this first look I am not going to get the precious crying reactions or anything like that. But, I would want some kind of reaction from my fiance. My worries are 1) I dont want my feelings to be hurt when I dont get the reaction I want. I know this may sound stupid, but I want him to see me as beautiful and I feel like I would go into this expecting a reaction Im just not going to get. 2) this may lead to awkward photos. I dont want him to fake anything because I want photos to be genuine, but I also dont want this whole first look thing to be a waste.
So, have any of you dealt with this situation? Is there a way we can make the first look a more fun and less emotional experience? I thought about potentially having our families involved so we're getting the reactions of everyone and the pressure is off my fiance. Or, should we just skip the first look altogether and just let seeing each other be a non-event?
Any help is much appreciated!
Also, I have spoken to my fiance about my feelings around this. I cant really change his genuine reaction so we're kind of stuck.