Finding the perfect venue

Hi everyone,


My fiancé and I are in the middle of planning of our big day. We still haven’t decided on our date just yet because we are still looking for a perfect that fit both our wants and needs. We are here in Seattle, WA area and we would really love to have Rustic barn/farm vibe venue, however, our one main concern is that, we are trying to look for a venue that it will allow us to self cater our own wedding because we don’t really want vendors to cook our menu for our big day, we want to do that ourselves. However, most of the venues here have required mandatory catering. Also, we are also wanting a venue that is equipped with a full commercial kitchen. So, lately it been a battle trying to find the perfect venue, especially whenever we ask if we can self cater and most of the venues doesn’t allow self caters in most venues here in Seattle, WA. Anyways, we would really appreciate any recommended venues that anyone else knows of that I know of, please let me know.
Thank You.