Finding a caterer is becoming a nightmare

I am getting married on April 23rd 2022 in Fort Collins Colorado, I am looking at pricing and options. Well We went on a date night yesterday we were thinking of having a local bbq joint cater our wedding, so we decided to give them a try. the food was horrible, chuncks of blue cheese in the salad I'm talking mouth full's and the pork was grey and we ended up getting sick. think the scene on bridesmaids. it was horrible, so I started to call other restraunts and I had a not very nice person laughing at me for calling to inquire about prices, I am a mother of 8 and don't have the time to plan a wedding so I plan when I can, am I doing something wrong,