My fiance and i excited to get married and start a life together. He wanted to elope, i wanted a wedding...i won. The reason he wanted to elope was avoid dealing with his family on such an important day. He is not close with any of them, his parents in particular. He had kind of a rough upbringing and his parents have never shown support or encouragement for anything he's done as an adult. Every time I bring up the guest list, he gets pissy and stressed out. I am trying not to take it personally...I know he just does not want to deal with them. I know he would be disappointed if we invited them and they did not show up (which is entirely possible), so I think he feels it would be easier on him, emotionally, to just not invite them at all. Plus, his mother and step father are heavy drinkers and he's worried about being embarrassed by them. I should support whatever his decision is...right? My parents might have a harder time with it than me, but I can bring them around.
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