My husband is a groomsman in a wedding next October across the country in California. It was supposed to be October of this year, but because of Covid they pushed it back a year. We had rsvp'd that both of us would be attending this year before it was moved. However, now we will have a five month old daughter at the time of their wedding. Part of me is torn because I was so excited to go back to California since that's where we had our honeymoon, but part of me also doesn't want to take a five month old on across the country and be forced to take care of her alone while my husband participates in groomsmen duties. The bachelor party is Wednesday, rehearsal Thursday, and wedding on Friday so I would be alone with our daughter a good portion of our time there. However, I also feel like I should be there because he was such a huge part of our wedding. The only problem is they have said no children. Him and his fiancée know I'm currently pregnant and we will had the baby by the time of their wedding. My question is if I would decide I want to attend is it wrong to ask if they would be willing to make an exception and allow us to bring our baby? I do plan on nursing so it's not like I can just leave her back home with one of our families since they are in Pennsylvania/New Jersey.
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