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mrswinteriscoming
VIP December 2021

Does anyone regret not having a honeymoon?

mrswinteriscoming, on May 16, 2021 at 9:14 PM Posted in Honeymoon 0 5

FH and I were planning to take a cruise for our honeymoon this December (a week after the wedding) however it doesn’t look like it will be happening. We live in Australia and our international borders are closed and now I have heard that even domestic cruises are unlikely to be allowed by the government due to COVID. We don’t have the option of flying interstate (FH and I are both deathly scared of flying) and I don’t really want to drive anywhere because FH’s parents live 8 hours away and we will already be visiting them at the end of the year (and since they are so far, a road trip even somewhere nice isn’t very appealing).

At this point, I do not think we will be taking a honeymoon, at least not until end of next year when travel (and cruises) resume.

While there is no need or requirement to go on a honeymoon, does anyone regret not taking one? My workplace will be shut for Christmas-New Year so I somewhat feel like it’ll be a waste to just sit at home so we may as well go somewhere local (i.e. within a 3 hour drive).

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Latest activity by Allie, on May 18, 2021 at 3:20 PM
  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah Online ·
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    Maybe do a staycation? Find a nice hotel within a 3 hour driving distance, spend a few nights there, eat good food and spend quality time with each other. Sometimes being a tourist in your own city can be nice. Any museums you just always said you'll check out "later" or other attractions? Maybe pick a hotel with a nice pool so you can lounge around and read that book you haven't had the time for. The purpose of the honeymoon is to relax and spend some nice alone time with your new spouse. You can do that anywhere, but if you want a change of scenery, you don't necessarily have to go far.
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  • Jen
    Dedicated October 2020
    Jen ·
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    To be honest I have bummed a bit because my husband and I did not have honeymoon after our wedding and since I’m now pregnant there doesn’t seem like there will be one in the future. When I do get sad about it I just think of all the amazing memories from my wedding and I think how much money we saved for the baby. Smiley smile
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  • AB
    Devoted September 2022
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    I am going to do everything in my power to have a honeymoon. A close friend was telling me they planned one, then canceled, said they would do a honeymoon on their one year, then had a child, said once the child was old enough they would go, now pregnant again.. you get it, I don't want to lose out on such an amazing trip with FH. Staycation could still be a honeymoon!!

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    I've had a few friends who planned their honeymoon for later and did a staycation or minimoon instead!! They didn't regret taking their honeymoon later on, but were all glad they still took a few days to recuperate from the wedding (and stress of planning) and to bask in the newlywed glow! Smiley heart

    Is there somewhere really nice or relaxing in Australia that would be fun for a few days?? I'd still pamper yourselves a little even if you're saving the big honeymoon for later!

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  • Allie
    VIP November 2021
    Allie ·
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    I know quite a few people who did a smaller honeymoon or staycation after their wedding and a bigger honeymoon like a year later. Maybe find somewhere close by that you can stay as others suggested? I personally would want to do something after the wedding with my new husband, so we opted to do a Disney/Universal vacation because we were like you and wanted to go on a cruise, but I'm just not comfortable with cruising yet. But if we didn't decide on that, we were going to drive somewhere about 4 hours away and just spend some time together.

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