Hey Ladies,
First time MOH here. I got married last year and my moh is the bride who i am a moh for this year! Super exciting. So I have booked the shower venue, will send out invites in the next couple weeks. However, is asking to chip in for decor and finger foods for the shower asking to much? Is that Rude? For the bachelorette the bride has requested dinner and then back to the house for gifts, games and a sleepover which is obviously fine but for that i am actually baking the desserts and setting up everything so can the bridesmaids help chip in for ingredients and their sashes? I just don't know. My mom thinks they should help. 2 of the girls won't make it to the shower so i don't expect help from them. For the bachelorette it is 3 days for the wedding because me and two others are traveling from out of state. I brought it up once about chipping in, only two of the girls responded and said "I'd rather give her (the bride) a nice gift". I fully expected to be paying the majority if not all but like, idk, it would be nice for at least one of the events to chip in a little. Thoughts? advice?